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Inner Peace

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  Inner Peace The path to inner peace Twists and turns Full of learning opportunities Full of challenges and questions Whichever path you follow is yours alone No two journeys are the same Inner peace blooms from within Seek it within yourself

Life's Grand Adventure

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  Life’s Grand Adventure   Life is one grand adventure One small adventure after another Put all the small adventures together That’s life   Come out of your shell To try something new Retreat into your shell To feel safe, secure   You are always changing Growing, getting older, learning new things Yet through all of life’s adventures Big and small You are still you.

Advice to my Older Self

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  Advice to my Older Self Recently, I asked many people what advice they would like to offer to their younger selves. One person asked me what advice I would give to my older self. Hmmm, I hadn’t thought of that, and it is an interesting question. Obviously, giving my childhood-self advice is simply a fantasy, but I could perhaps tell my older self some things. I could write myself a letter and put it in an envelope marked, “DO NOT OPEN UNTIL 2030!” Or I could take a more short-term approach. Tomorrow, I’ll be a day older than I am today. Okay, Tomorrow-Self, go out for a nice long walk, and enjoy being present in the moment. Smile and say “Hi” to a passer-by. Listen to the birds singing. Notice the colors, patterns, and textures all around. But what about my 20-years-older self, the person I will be in the year 2042? What advice would I give to her (and what makes me think I’ll be any more open to receiving advice in 20 years than I am now)? Assuming I am still alive and...

Beauty is not just a rainbow

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  A rainbow of flowers. Photos by L Bowen Beauty is Not Just a Rainbow Open your eyes, slow down Put on your observation glasses, and look around There is beauty everywhere It's not just in the rainbow after a storm Or the colors of flowers Or a pretty photo of an exotic place you've never been There's beauty in everyone, all around the world, even you In the ordinary everyday things we don't take the time to notice Sometimes we have to look past the ugly to see the beauty But it's there Next time you have a moment Slow down  Look around Notice the beauty, details, colors, patterns The complexities of every living thing

Advice to my Younger Self (Part 2)

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 In Part 1 of "Advice to my Younger Self " I shared advice I would have given to my younger self, if such a thing were possible. In Part 2 of "Advice to my Younger Self" I will share answers from others, in response to the question, "What bit of advice would you give to your younger self?" I asked many people, younger and older, male and female, what advice they would give to their younger selves. The following, in random order, is an anonymous compilation of replies. Some have been slightly edited for brevity and clarity. Thank you to everyone who shared their bits of advice with me. ·          Stand up straight. ·          I would tell my younger self to hold off on committing to someone else as a life partner until I'm sure I've fulfilled a commitment to loving and discovering myself - to know what I want, be fearless in reaching for it, and strong enough to say no to what feels like someone...

Advice to my younger self

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ADVICE TO MY YOUNGER SELF Sometimes I wonder, if i were my own big sister, and I could offer one morsel of advice to my younger self (assuming my younger self would listen to her big-sister-self), what would I want to tell myself? To my very shy and self-conscious little kid self, I would say, “Don’t worry so much about what other people think about you. What they think about you doesn’t really matter. Just have fun being you.” I would tell my kid and teen self, “It’s okay to make mistakes. Everyone makes mistakes. No one is going to think you’re stupid if you make a mistake or if you give the wrong answer. And if they do, then so what, you can be still proud of yourself that you tried.” Apparently my young-adult self needed a lot of advice, because I couldn’t settle on just one thing I should have known. So here are three things I would want to tell my young-adult self: “Do what you know you need to do. Be proactive. Don’t keep waiting for things to change on their own. You know what ...
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 Springtime fern frond unfurling. Photo by L Bowen 2022 "Today is the first day of the rest of your life." -Charles Dederich Fresh A fresh start Clean, undamaged, unspoiled A new perspective Explore new ideas Great potential The possibilities are endless Wonder Live, learn, be curious, observe, listen Where to go from here? Only time will tell. Tomorrow is a new day. Enjoy your journey.